#4 Porn And Sex....

Porn and Sex

‘Nakul, the quality of laptop is defined by the quantity of porn, not by its F-processor or F-Ram or F-Graphics,’ said one of my friends while watching porn. I usually love to write fiction and self-help, but the word porn drew me towards it like it has drawn several boys of the universe.  What is sex? It is an intercourse of two bodies and when it is mingled with love it becomes a way to meet God. It’s a kaam to meet Rama. But, if sex is associated with lust, it results in harassment of women and if someone records it, it becomes pornography. A lot of wicked movies has made intentionally and has only showed how to disrespect a woman in different postures.   

‘Sex is a poison and practicing it is a sin,’ is what many Indians speaking, but is it what they are thinking? I would glad to write the words of Khushwant Singh, a well-known Indian writer, which reflects the real Indians, ‘We Indians are very interested in sex, we have curiosity and the drive and we pretend to be prudish and conservative.’ When Lord Krishna manifests himself in 1608 forms- one for each Gopi- and proceeds to make love with them, then is his Karma making him impure? No. Sex in the pure and trustful form is the way to unite with God because the greatest pleasure in the world comes while doing sex only. It is an experience likely one gets in a deep meditation. Some experts have said the risk of getting AIDS is almost negligible if the sex is performed with love. ‘Give sex a sacred status in your life. At the time of coitus, we are close to God,’ said Acharya Rajneesh. But, what about the sex we have seen in immoral movies?   

What I’m listening every day is that Indian government has done a blunder after banning porn in the country and now, the day is not far when the rape cases will reach its zenith. However, the ban is uplifted few hours ago because of the threat of increasing rape cases. But, a question knocking me again and over again, is there a woman stands, in the mind while masturbating? When I was in grade ninth I came to know what blue film is, but today, I have seen small children in between the age group of 10-14 giggling and wagging tongue in between the lips while watching it. The little children whom I had seen playing cricket and football in underwear, now can easily be seen scratching the same small pants while ogling the little girls ‘What we shall sow, we shall harvest,’ reads holy Bible and Shri Guru Granth Sahib. What seeds we put in our self will come out in future as our character.

Uplifting the ban from porn can never control the rape cases in India. Porn is only teaching on what body part a man should hit to harass her or how a teen boy should spend hours to make his penis ready for few minutes of hand exercise. I’ve never come across any porn which has showed us how to love a woman or how to make a pure sex. The only way to reduce the crime rates is to give education. Now, if you argue that a lot of educated people are doing rapes and I’m speaking rubbish then I respectfully want to tell you that those people are known as padhe-likhe anpadh (Well educated illiterate people). Education does not mean to get good grades in class and get placed in top companies, but education means how we behave, what we talk and how much respect we give to others.