Porn and
Sex
‘Nakul, the quality of laptop is defined by the quantity of porn,
not by its F-processor or F-Ram or F-Graphics,’ said one of my friends while
watching porn. I usually love to write fiction and self-help, but the word porn
drew me towards it like it has drawn several boys of the universe. What is sex? It is an intercourse of two
bodies and when it is mingled with love it becomes a way to meet God. It’s a kaam to meet Rama. But, if sex is associated
with lust, it results in harassment of women and if someone records it, it
becomes pornography. A lot of wicked movies has made intentionally and has only
showed how to disrespect a woman in different postures.
‘Sex is a poison and practicing it is a sin,’ is what many Indians
speaking, but is it what they are thinking? I would glad to write the words of
Khushwant Singh, a well-known Indian writer, which reflects the real Indians, ‘We
Indians are very interested in sex, we have curiosity and the drive and we
pretend to be prudish and conservative.’ When Lord Krishna manifests himself in
1608 forms- one for each Gopi- and proceeds to make love with them, then is his
Karma making him impure? No. Sex in
the pure and trustful form is the way to unite with God because the greatest
pleasure in the world comes while doing sex only. It is an experience likely
one gets in a deep meditation. Some experts have said the risk of getting AIDS
is almost negligible if the sex is performed with love. ‘Give sex a sacred
status in your life. At the time of coitus, we are close to God,’ said Acharya
Rajneesh. But, what about the sex we have seen in immoral movies?
What I’m listening every day is that Indian government has done a
blunder after banning porn in the country and now, the day is not far when the
rape cases will reach its zenith. However, the ban is uplifted few hours ago
because of the threat of increasing rape cases. But, a question knocking me
again and over again, is there a woman stands, in the mind while masturbating?
When I was in grade ninth I came to know what blue film is, but today, I have
seen small children in between the age group of 10-14 giggling and wagging
tongue in between the lips while watching it. The little children whom I had
seen playing cricket and football in underwear, now can easily be seen
scratching the same small pants while ogling the little girls ‘What we shall
sow, we shall harvest,’ reads holy Bible and Shri Guru Granth Sahib. What seeds
we put in our self will come out in future as our character.
Uplifting the ban from porn can never control the rape cases in
India. Porn is only teaching on what body part a man should hit to harass her
or how a teen boy should spend hours to make his penis ready for few minutes of
hand exercise. I’ve never come across any porn which has showed us how to love
a woman or how to make a pure sex. The only way to reduce the crime rates is to
give education. Now, if you argue that a lot of educated people are doing rapes
and I’m speaking rubbish then I respectfully want to tell you that those people
are known as padhe-likhe anpadh (Well
educated illiterate people). Education does not mean to get good grades in
class and get placed in top companies, but education means how we behave, what
we talk and how much respect we give to others.
Great blog keep it up
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ReplyDeleteLiked your article but not agree that porn is that bad. The people of developing countries like India, Pakistan etc consider it taboo but it will become normal with growth of people' mindset. Every person have right to choose what they want to watch. Watching porn is not sin. As you said in your article that sex is a form of God, you must admit that porn is an art. Yes I admit that there are various categories that are very hardcore but you can not just deny the role of porn in sexual education. I, being a child of highly religious and conservative family, learnt a lot from porn movies and magazines. Believe it or not, everyone has a dark side and mostly everyone has a natural tendency of human species that is sex. Porn movies are just a developed form of human curiosity about the dimensions of it. I don't think there is any reason to say that porn is evil.
ReplyDeleteThank you so much for reading. I'm glad to read your views. Everyone has different point of views and I respect your point of view. Thank you.again :) :)
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