#29 How I achieve my goals and play my biggest game?

I was always a stubborn child. I had no control over my desires. If I wanted doing something I directly asked my parents. If they refused or stopped me, I did it alone. My parents and friends have always tried to stop me doing the things I wanted to do. They said whatsoever I was thinking has no meaning to life and I was doing a great mistake. So I said, ‘Hell with your advices. Let me do mistakes.’ Fortunately, I proved myself every time after getting failed twice or thrice.

The biggest favor I did on my life is by stopping wrong people poking their nose in my business. But I allow girls to say and do whatsoever they wanted to do with me. Girls have also been a motivation for me to write about love. I found all girls are positive as I have never shared my worries with them. I don’t talk with every girl. They are chatter-box. If you try to stop them from speaking, they might turn face from you. And once any woman started ignoring you, you cannot make her to come back in your life.

At one moment of my life, I found good surrounding myself with haters. Sometimes haters motivated me and sometimes they made me feel low. And soon, I understand I cannot do anything when I’m highly motivated and depressed. Wrong people are only energy drainers. The only thing that matters is how long you are playing your game. Self-discipline is the art that everyone needs to learn. Getting up every day and doing again and over again the same things makes a man perfect. I prohibited wrong people to enter my life with their free advices and started reading books. I made books my friend and walk down my own road.

Now, I stay away from naysayers, blamers, complainers. I make excuses when they call me to spend a little time with them. I do not take advices from elders too. They are also negative. I make goals, set limits and do best to achieve them. Every morning, I ask myself to play the biggest game of my life. I keep on reminding myself the things which will help me in improving my life and becoming a better person. 
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