#29 How I achieve my goals and play my biggest game?

I was always a stubborn child. I had no control over my desires. If I wanted doing something I directly asked my parents. If they refused or stopped me, I did it alone. My parents and friends have always tried to stop me doing the things I wanted to do. They said whatsoever I was thinking has no meaning to life and I was doing a great mistake. So I said, ‘Hell with your advices. Let me do mistakes.’ Fortunately, I proved myself every time after getting failed twice or thrice.

The biggest favor I did on my life is by stopping wrong people poking their nose in my business. But I allow girls to say and do whatsoever they wanted to do with me. Girls have also been a motivation for me to write about love. I found all girls are positive as I have never shared my worries with them. I don’t talk with every girl. They are chatter-box. If you try to stop them from speaking, they might turn face from you. And once any woman started ignoring you, you cannot make her to come back in your life.

At one moment of my life, I found good surrounding myself with haters. Sometimes haters motivated me and sometimes they made me feel low. And soon, I understand I cannot do anything when I’m highly motivated and depressed. Wrong people are only energy drainers. The only thing that matters is how long you are playing your game. Self-discipline is the art that everyone needs to learn. Getting up every day and doing again and over again the same things makes a man perfect. I prohibited wrong people to enter my life with their free advices and started reading books. I made books my friend and walk down my own road.

Now, I stay away from naysayers, blamers, complainers. I make excuses when they call me to spend a little time with them. I do not take advices from elders too. They are also negative. I make goals, set limits and do best to achieve them. Every morning, I ask myself to play the biggest game of my life. I keep on reminding myself the things which will help me in improving my life and becoming a better person. 
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#28 Muslims, Hindus and Christians, Your Religion is Non-sense

Two years ago, I found my interest in religion. I took Holy Bible, Guru Granth Sahib and Holy Quran for reading. I accept that I haven’t read them till the last, but I understood what they all are about. Then I moved to spirituality and started reading Swami Vivekananda and Swami Ramakrishna. These two spiritual giants were followers of Hinduism and studied Vedanta. I found Swami Vivekananda more logical then Swami Ramakrishna. Then I read Ramdas, Osho, Sri M, Swami Nityananda and other philosophers of Hinduism. I learnt a lot of new information from them.

            People who are the followers of the ready-made religion are not living in reality. They are imagining a person who really not exists and doing kirtans-bhajans in sangat. Doing kirtans, dancing on that music, chanting the names of Rama and Krishna is madness. Muslims follow Mohmmad who flew in heaven with his flying horse. The flying horse was lucky, he got a lottery to heaven. Christians follow Jesus who really didn’t die on a cross but in Kashmir, India. Buddhism and Jainism are derived for Hinduism and yet resist the philosophies of Hinduism.  Words by Guru Nanak are similar to the words that in Holy Bible.

            Religion is not without but starts from within. The philosophy of inside world is very difficult to understand. Buddha did find himself but then there are a lot of other things that resist me to follow him. I believe in one God and that is formless.  I learnt about this God from my school. My teachers who were followers of Vishnu, Mahesh and Brahma told me that God is one. And this God of mine is an energy that is spread all over the world. This god is deaf who can’t hear your bhajans. But he is not blind and can see your prayers and works. This God works like a mirror for human being. Whatsoever human beings throw in the world, the energy does its work of throwing their Karmas back upon them.

Good and bad are reverse and obverse of a same coin. I believe Jesus, Mohammad, Guru Nanak, Buddha had lived on this earth and they did find themselves. They tried their best to spread peace and brotherhood on the earth. But people are spreading non-sense all around. Quran says kill all the infidels, Jews do not accept theories of Jesus and fight with Christians, Sikh are busy in making Khalistan by undergoing amrit-chakna, a sort of baptism, which symbolised a member of Khalsa.

I do not indulge in religious debate nor I stop people to follow what they are doing, but I always put my points before people without afraid. Jesus, Buddha, Mohmmad, Guru Nanak all were human beings. I accept the good things written in the holy books and shape my life according to it. Books have always been to find the Real Me. I found Mahatma Gandhi and Khushwant Singh a better human being. Now, shall I make another religion and give it a name Gandhistan or Khushwantstan? 

            My religion is to share my knowledge with others and to do what I love. Where the youth is busy fighting on the matter of freedom of speech, I meditate on myself. I’ve never accept any good from the youth of our country. They are non-sense and active in spreading rubbish. I love reading books but I never follow any leader or writer. I am a follower of my own life. My own life is my religion. I write what is true and what I experience without giving to damn people.  

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#27 My Clear Conscience

Middle man who struggles in his early life always gets enough to keep his body and soul together. It is good to be a middle man, but not as good as to live a happy and peaceful life. A beautiful life comes in either discovering the gifts dwelling in you or by learning how to be satisfied. As us human beings have a congenital disease of desires, we can never we be satisfied with our self.  We always want a little more. It is not at all bad to desire more. Desires and dreams are good. At whatever stage we are now is only because of our thoughts and desires of past. What you desire and think today, you will surely get it tomorrow. I think, to live a beautiful life a man should always keep on searching the true meaning behind his life.

            I feel good as a writer. I talk honestly with people, I share my knowledge with them, I inspire them and sometimes, I make them feel lonely with my old writing style. But frankly, I always try to help them as much as I can through my writings. I always feel better when I reflect upon the words of Mahatma Gandhi:

Vaishnavjan toh tainey kaheeye, jo peerh paraayee jaaney ray

(I know him as a man of God, who feels another’s pain)

            I try to help everyone, but if someone breaks my trust I don’t feel afraid while abandoning him. I accept I too had broken many trusts and hearts. I regret it doing so and always do my best to avoid hurting anyone.  

            Another thing to make your life colorful is in learning how to entertain yourself. I impressed dozens of people with my ability to make quick humor. Now, people who know me very well laugh even when I pass a fart. Farting on the correct time, in the right situation is also an art. I feel pity for the people who entertain themselves by watching videos on YouTube. Those people have a low sense of humor. There is no need to search humor on television or online. Humor is everywhere if we see it with laughing hearts. I found man has a great sense of humor while woman has a great sense of rumor.

            Whole my life I did what I liked, without caring what people might think and how they might react. That is another way to live a good life, without giving damn to the people. It reminds me of a quote by Rumy: Sing like the birds sing, not worrying about who hears or what they think.

            Yesterday, I was a child, running on the streets behind the kites spinning and gliding in the sky and now, I don’t know when I passed twenty-one years of my life. The only apt couplet comes in mind is of Mirza Ghalib:

Rau mein hai rakhsh-e-umar kahaan dekhiye thhamey

Naey haath bag par hai na paa hai rakaab mein.

(Life travels at a galloping pace; I know not where it will stop;

The reins are not in my hands, nor my feet in the stirrups.)

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